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Offline BudM

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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #15 on: November 29, 2017, 11:09:24 AM »
There are available and gorgeous women here all over the place.  30s, 40s and even 50s.  Damn, I know a woman who is nice and a looker in her 60s even.  The only obstacle with some of them is you would have to consider paying for an annulment.  Personally, if I wasn't married, I would stay away from 20s and at my age now, which is about 10 more than you, I don't think I could be compatible with 30s.  Some guys can though.  And contrary to what a lot of people say, age does matter. The thing is, there is no shortage of caring women here but yeah, there are some scammers so you have to watch out.  But man, for your own good, stay away from the really young stuff.
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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #16 on: December 01, 2017, 12:11:06 AM »
Funny you mention this. After 25 years of faithful marriage I found out she was being a whore while I was working to provide a well into the six digit income for her. Beautiful 4000sq ft home and everything she could want except I was never home. Our two children were very well taken care of and had the opportunity of traveling the world because of my job. It didn't matter. Fortunately the children realize the experiences they had most other kids never experience in a lifetime. They have no hard feelings although I am not as close to them as I would like as I worked ungodly hours and was never home they understand mostly and don't hold it against me. Then I divorced her and quickly got into a relationship on the rebound with a Filipino online. Traveled three times to Mindado to meet and greet and decided to marry she was half my age and a trophy girl. All the Red Flags were there I didn't see them, brought her to the US and she got her Green card three years later after we married. She also ended up being a whore after I paid for her education got her a really good paying job and green card. Straight up gold digging bitch that ran my credit cards to the limits while doing another guy. Dumped her, now on number three who also happens to be Filipino in her mid 40s highly educated, stubborn as an ox when she sets goals and she is no bullshit person and with her three kids. Some laddies want favoritism for the kids and spoil them until they are snowflakes not his lady. Rules are rules chores are chores earn what you want and own it Damn I love this lady she is hard core. Only because she had to suffer and sacrifice to get a BS college degree in Education and become a teacher. I came into the picture a few years later and now she is finishing a Master in Education which will open more doors.

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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #17 on: December 01, 2017, 05:59:26 AM »
Funny you mention this. After 25 years of faithful marriage I found out she was being a whore while I was working to provide a well into the six digit income for her. Beautiful 4000sq ft home and everything she could want except I was never home. Our two children were very well taken care of and had the opportunity of traveling the world because of my job. It didn't matter. Fortunately the children realize the experiences they had most other kids never experience in a lifetime. They have no hard feelings although I am not as close to them as I would like as I worked ungodly hours and was never home they understand mostly and don't hold it against me. Then I divorced her and quickly got into a relationship on the rebound with a Filipino online. Traveled three times to Mindado to meet and greet and decided to marry she was half my age and a trophy girl. All the Red Flags were there I didn't see them, brought her to the US and she got her Green card three years later after we married. She also ended up being a whore after I paid for her education got her a really good paying job and green card. Straight up gold digging bitch that ran my credit cards to the limits while doing another guy. Dumped her, now on number three who also happens to be Filipino in her mid 40s highly educated, stubborn as an ox when she sets goals and she is no bullshit person and with her three kids. Some laddies want favoritism for the kids and spoil them until they are snowflakes not his lady. Rules are rules chores are chores earn what you want and own it Damn I love this lady she is hard core. Only because she had to suffer and sacrifice to get a BS college degree in Education and become a teacher. I came into the picture a few years later and now she is finishing a Master in Education which will open more doors.

Good for you @Medic3500, you seem to have eventually found the right one.  Best wishes for the future.
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Offline Steve & Myrlita

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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #18 on: December 01, 2017, 07:53:03 AM »
Took me 3x as well. 10 years and still counting praise God.

Thank you...God Bless...
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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #19 on: December 03, 2017, 08:57:21 AM »
3 time is the charm it seems for a few of us.  Same here.  First in college.  A pinay that was able to travel to the USA for college.  Loved her till she was take with cancer after only a couple years together. 

Made the foolish mistake of thinking all Pinay are awesome.  Married another.  Oops. 

Now on 3rd and couldn't be happier. 
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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #20 on: December 04, 2017, 02:38:03 AM »
I survived one divorce (barely) and spent the next 10 years working on myself, improving many things in hopes of finding the next Mrs Bishop. Found her online and with "only" a 14 year age difference. I made it clear that there would be no children from this coupling since I had been "fixed" years before. She accepted and is now very content not having any children of our own. I doubt whether your 17 y/o would find it comfortable never having children. That being said, how much are you willing to invest in family, especially now that you're facing senior life.

Also, as many have said, she is legally underage. Even if you hit it off at first, just the mere mention of any difficulty could land you squarely in a Filipino jail for many years. If I were you I would cut it off now. I wouldn't even go for a visit to see the family. They may take that face to face rejection badly and you could end up face down in a rice paddie, or worse.

Run away in the opposite direction as fast as possible. Break all connections immediately, do your business and keep your eyes open for someone more mature. You'd be surprised how gorgeous and more level-headed a Filipina in her mid-30's or early 40's can be.
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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #21 on: December 05, 2017, 03:30:40 AM »
Confucius say...
Man who date 17yo in Philippines had better enjoy dancing to "thriller" in orange jammies!
SO SAYETH THE RUFUS

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Re: Question about visiting a young girl and her family in Phil
« Reply #22 on: December 05, 2017, 09:06:47 AM »

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