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Offline chimellie

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Are you bored living in the Philippines ?
« on: June 07, 2018, 10:13:06 PM »
Do you guys find it boring from day to day living in the Philippines ? What is your daily routine like ?

I usually visit Cebu for 3 weeks,  the first 2 seeks was fun because we travel to different islands, going to the beach, waterfalls, caves...etc...But then the last week we wind down, buying stuff, packing and get ready to fly home. I found it very boring just hang around all day, sometimes I would take a walk in the neighborhood, talk to the locals, joke around with kids. Beside that I have nothing else to do.

If I were in the US I would hop in my car driving places, visit my relatives, friends or play golf or bowling with friends. There's always something else to do like mowing the grass, change the oil on the car, the mower, the snow blower. 

I am planning to retire to Cebu in 3 years and always wondering if I would be bored there.   

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Re: Are you bored living in the Philippines ?
« Reply #1 on: June 07, 2018, 10:57:12 PM »
Do you guys find it boring from day to day living in the Philippines ? What is your daily routine like ?

I usually visit Cebu for 3 weeks,  the first 2 seeks was fun because we travel to different islands, going to the beach, waterfalls, caves...etc...But then the last week we wind down, buying stuff, packing and get ready to fly home. I found it very boring just hang around all day, sometimes I would take a walk in the neighborhood, talk to the locals, joke around with kids. Beside that I have nothing else to do.

If I were in the US I would hop in my car driving places, visit my relatives, friends or play golf or bowling with friends. There's always something else to do like mowing the grass, change the oil on the car, the mower, the snow blower. 

I am planning to retire to Cebu in 3 years and always wondering if I would be bored there.   

We always keep busy when there, why can you not do the same things you do when in the US, there are golf courses, the Sandtrap comes to mind but they changed the name a year or two ago, I do not remember the new name and they also have a pool there and a nice bar so easy to make a day or it, then bowling, SM Seaside has bowling, shoot pool, ice skating, archery, movies, even a fancy movie with reclining chairs, restaurants, etc, and it is a nice mall for exercise, walking around all the floors to stay healthy and SM City also has bowling and then there are gyms to stay fit if one likes that type of thing.

Also you can visit friends and relatives, take trips around Asia and other islands fairly inexpensive, drive around Cebu and go to other islands to also explore if you wish. No need to do labor related since you can have others do it for you if you wish, or get a hobby such as an old car to rebuild, go out with different friends and family as often as your budget can afford it, we do the same when in Cebu as we do when in Florida except we do not have a car so we take taxis, if we lived there full time then we would have a vehicle or a few for sure.

One thing to consider wherever you decide to move, make sure it will fit your lifestyle and that there will be transportation to get you to other places, such as on Camotes Island I am told fishing, swimming and relaxing is most of what people do there but they also have a lot more such as caves, waterfalls, yet most items will revolve around outdoor life, click on the link I provided to see some.

Life anywhere is what you make it, make some good friends once there or when visiting and I am sure you will find plenty to do, many hotels like Marco Polo also have live music where you can meet up with friends for a drink and some chat.

I also keep busy on forums and with emails from friends that often eat up my mornings and sometimes part of my evenings and then there is buying movies CD's down at Colon 5 for p100 to watch when home if you even have time for that lol. The main thing I have found out since retiring is learning to slow down, once you are retired then you will likely have to learn to do that as well, once slowed down then no stress, get up when you want, go wherever you want and whenever you want to.

Hopefully others will chime in with what fills their days but I suspect it is much of the same as what filled their days back home just possibly more reading and searching around the internet to find items they like to do to keep busy.
:) Happily married since 1994 & live part of the year in Cebu and the rest in S. Florida.

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Re: Are you bored living in the Philippines ?
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2018, 07:03:56 AM »
I went through that for about 2 months after I was here for about 6 months.  I sat around.  Had the house still being finished so it gave me something to focus on.  But even then, Tina got upset at me because I wasn't leaving the builders alone and was at times getting pissed at them for the messes they were making that were doing damage to the house(mixing cement on a just finished floor and not cleaning it up after and letting it dry the one more than anything that pissed me off). 

But, then I just decided to change my mindset.  Not big time...just small things.  Started walking every morning and sometimes playing basketball with the locals.  I needed exercise as life was much slower here and that was a way to both cure some of my being bored as well as take care of my health.  Then more things started taking my time like downloading the shows/movies I like but can't find here in the Philippines so I can still watch them.  Going to Tina's work and sitting and talking with her and her co-workers.  Just stuff like that where I wasn't bothering anyone(Tina manages the market for the LGU.  Basically everyone does an hour or two of work then set on their rear ends and talk the rest of the day) and had something to do.

Then there's this site and other online sites I joined and spend time on them. 

You might have to go through and adjustment period and discover what's around you and what you find enjoyable.  But after you make it through that....all is good in paradise again.
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Offline Art, just a re(tired) Fil-Am

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Re: Are you bored living in the Philippines ?
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2018, 10:53:40 AM »
No, I'm not bored living in the Philippines. My wife and I have lived here since retiring in 1998 to date and only have been out of the country a few times on short vacations.
Getting bored is only a mindset when one allows it to occur at any given time.
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Re: Are you bored living in the Philippines ?
« Reply #4 on: June 12, 2018, 09:59:49 AM »
No, I'm not bored living in the Philippines. My wife and I have lived here since retiring in 1998 to date and only have been out of the country a few times on short vacations.
Getting bored is only a mindset when one allows it to occur at any given time.
  Hi Art,
                         It's great that you and the wife, are doing good. 8)

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Re: Are you bored living in the Philippines ?
« Reply #5 on: June 12, 2018, 12:01:41 PM »
  Hi Art,
                         It's great that you and the wife, are doing good. 8)
Dang Joe, where have you been all this time? Good to hear from you after all these years!
« Last Edit: June 12, 2018, 12:08:25 PM by Art, just a re(tired) Fil-Am »
"Life is what we all make it to be"!
"It's always a matter of money"!
"Do on to others as they would do on to You, but do it first"!
"Different strokes for different folks"!
"Que Sera Sera"!

 


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