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For Batanes - for those three numinous syllables that conjure the distant, the forbidding, the beautiful - one tempts fate.
The Batanes Archipelago lies on the northernmost tip of the Philippines, on a vast expanse of surging waters where the Pacific Ocean meets the China Sea. It is only 525 miles from Manila, but it may as well be another world.
From the air, as the Fokker 50 glides down the landing strip at the foot of Mount Iraya, the land serves up a breathtaking welcome. Pastoral hills rolling down savage seas. Sea birds riding the waves. Puffs of foliage of the deepest green. The wind's way on tall grasses. Low clouds now held in their place by a rainbow with its fragile promise of fine weather. Villages of stone huddled on tractable shores. The morning sun swaddling the land with golden light. An island inchoate, still warm, it seems, with the force of creation.
Always, the sea. It rams against limestone rocks, crashes onto shores and, in Valugan, laps on an incredible beach overlaid with smooth stones. It never rests. On fine days it froths. Roiling, it can send waves thirty feet to the crest, haul ashore from the seafloor rocks as big as houses, or bury an entire village under sand. Most Batanes families have lost a member to the sea.
Always, the hills. Up in what folks call Marlboro Country one half expects a tattooed cowboy or Julie Andrews singing a paean to nature to materialize among the cattle grazing by.
Batanes is the Philippines' smallest province both in terms of area (21,099 hectares) and population (14,663). It is made up of three islands and seven islets including Y'ami, where, on a clear day, the folk say, one can see Taiwan.
Batan, the largest island, contains the capital town Basco. One can circle it in two hours by car. In Sabtang island hillside homes hang above the sea, allowing the folk to fish from their window. Strong current prevent boats from ferrying commuters regularly to Itbayat island. Also, there is a technique to getting on or off shore. There are no piers or beaches. The island is reined in by towering cliffs that drop sharply into the sea. To go ashore, one waits for a strong wave to thrust the boat up to ground level then jump off. One goes through the same acrobatic feat to climb aboard.
The Ivatan, the people of Batanes, have inherited the land's insular character; Unlike most Filipinos who emerged from an eclectic gene pool through intermarriages, the Ivatan are of purer stock. They uniformly bear the features of their ancestors: the Malay's brown skin, the Chinese almond eyes, the Spaniard's aquiline nose.
The anin, or typhoon, is the central fact of Ivatan life. That Batanes is constantly battered by typhoons is a myth; when a typhoon does come, it lashes with a velocity that can break the barometer.
Every Ivatan has a favorite typhoon story. In 1921, the cathedral was unroofed and the wireless tower twisted. In 1905, strong winds suffocated cattle to death. In 1918, a fishing boat was swept away to Annam; five years ago, a fisherman was set adrift to Taiwan. In 1952, someone determined to recover his GI roof chased after it; he got it back at the town plaza, rolled into a ball, driven about like tumbleweed. In 1987, a Philippine Navy landing ship tank ran aground in Basco and a school building was blown away in Mahatao. The governor tells of that stormy night long ago, with the family gathered in the living room waiting for the typhoon to pass. The roof gave way, disgorging in their midst a cow. Next day, there was a feast.
In defiance of nature, the Ivatan have built fortress like homes. The typical Avatar house is made of limestone quarried from the hills and roofed with grass. Walls and roof are a meter thick; windows and doors small and narrow. During a typhoon, rope nets secure homes.
The kitchen, a separate structure, is the most important part of the house. Built around a great stove, it is very like a campfire - warm, safe, a source of communal well-being. When the aruyo trees grow unusually long, tender leaves, the Ivatan are sure a typhoon will hit them in a few days; it is time to fill the kitchen with provisions. Come the typhoon, the entire family lives there.
Life is fundamental. The Ivatan live without television, moviehouses, shopping malls or restaurants. If the frippery of the twentieth century has passed them by so have its ills. Nobody locks his door. No one is too rich or too poor. Every one is a farmer or a fisherman. Besides a spartan life, the Ivatan are bound together by religion. In their uncertain universe God is the only certainty.
Many Ivatan, especially the young, have moved to more hospitable shores but they return on occasions, as did Juliet Ponce, now a Manilan, who came home to wed. Many stay by choice. The governor's wife, an outsider, fell in love with Batanes at first sight and made it her home. Allowed a second life, Gregorio Delatado, 88, will live it again in Batanes, the best place he knows.
Batanes is not for tourists out to shoot Kodakchrome views. It is rather for those still blessed with a sense of wonder, for whom uncharted roads lead to discovery. There are plans to urbanize Batanes. The young are agog: the old dread change. In the old days, the Ivatan believed that when they die they become stars. On cloudless nights, the Ivatan's dark world is lit by hundreds of brilliant stars. Up there is balm to pain of change. Up there is a cairn to folk memory.
I HAVE TO comment here, don .... IMHO, if the Philippine method of child-raising could be a required and utilized export worldwide, this would be a much happier planet for everyone. Again, IMHO, I have yet to see an ugly child in my 16 months here - they're ALL "bright-eyed and bushy tailed!" Sure some of the "beggar-kids" could use a good hose-down and a few square meals but they all seem to know they're loved .... broke, perhaps, but loved. I know I raised my kids back in America to see me as an ATM with feet - that's the American way - so when the machine closed down, they had no more use for me. Their mother scared the hell out of them, warning then of all the "dangers" out there - and ignoring the REAL dangers. The result: some Americans are paranoid dependent "children" into their 40s. Here, love and respect seem to be universal and I, for one, think it's totally beautiful. ~~~~~ Mike There will never be another day like today - treat it well.
Filipinos like most Asians love their family. At least that what I hear all the time. Is this still true of today children? Does it translate by respect and good behavior toward their parent
Yes and No, In the Philippines respect to your parents and alders is/was very big more so perhaps in the provinces than the cities. The impression I get is that a lot of the city kids are learning from our city kids, most likely through the media etc.
My wife has decided that our child will learn the Filipino tradition of mano po. One of the things that bothers her most about the people in the US is lack of respect for elders
Once again you have hit the nail on the head!, In the U.K the kids have little or no respect for their parents or their elders.This i believe is because of the so called do gooders in our society who believe you cant hit your children even a slap on the legs is forbidden,therefore the kids can do what they like and get away with it. My friend in Manila told me she slapped her kids because they were being cheeky ,i was horrified !! You would never be able to do that in the UK,you would be taken to court! But her kids definately show respect for her and the the other members of her family. And i think lack of respect is one of the causes of so many problems in the World today. I prefer the Philippine way of life to the U K way of life any time! Long may it continue
I have a different perspective on child rearing, than the more heavy handed approach and I definitely don't consider myself a "do-gooder". I think the most important practice to apply when raising a child, is to set the ground rules of acceptable behaviour at the earliest age and then applying the rules consistantly. I raised two kids in the U.S.A. and never once did I have to strike them in any way, to get them to behave in the way I intended. They both learned that you must say "Yes Sir" and "Yes Maam" when addressing an elder. They must say "Please" and "Thank You", when asking for or receiving something. They never once received any desiplinary action in school. They were quiet and well behaved in group settings. My son is an Eagle scout, they both were in the Gifted and Honors Programs, throughout elementary and high school, while maintaining grades that kept them on the honor roll. All this without ever slapping them even once. They are both now in university on academic scholarships. I, on the other hand, was not so well behaved as a child and usually kept a set of red stripes on the back of my legs and backside. The kids here in the PI are very respectful of their elders. I've seen several times, where even the youngest are taught to "Bless" their elders. However, I would like to see some other "ground rules" applied more consistantly, especially those pertaining to school and studies. Also, managing altercations with their peers, seems to be pretty physical, which probably leads to similar behaviour in adulthood. Teaching the meaning of the word "No", should come right after teaching the word "Daddy".
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