Hi Robbie
That kinda rings alarm bells for me. You have told us how eloquently she has been able to converse with you by text, answering 50 odd questions etc., yet she is unable to speak to you. That might have seemed OK a few months ago when you first starting chatting, but don't you think by now, she should be able to talk to you. This may seem crazy, but it has happened before or so I've read on some forums, that the person that is doing the texting is not the same person that is sharing photos, or failing to speak with you face to face on line. I think I'd be tempted to test this out, by maybe having her come on line, but text you whilst you're watching. You don't have have to make it look like a test. Maybe say to her that you appreciate that she finds it difficult to talk, but at the same time, you just love looking at her, so can she text you while you're watching her.
No, she is the same one texting me, i am 100% sure of that. I am not being scammed here. Thanks for the concern.
Even when i sent her money, i asked her for an unexpected request for a selfie with of her holding a dated handwritten, thank you note. And her, there, she's such a character, she stuck it on her forehead which a big smile of her face.
As for the voice chats, we have just started to do only very recently (not "months ago").
We rarely voice chat because the connection is not always great (very choppy).
She's only using a mobile phone. And her two-year-old is running around screaming when he hears her ring tone at 11pm PH time.
I am politely on her case to get the boy into bed earlier at 7pm because they need 12 - 14 hours sleep at that age. I'm also getting her to STOP sleeping with him because he will have SERIOUS separation anxiety when she finally comes to Montreal if all goes well with her visa and all of that. People are saying she won't even be able to get her.
So we'll have to see.
I am thinking in my mind that she won't have any trouble in spite of what members, who are more in-the-know about Pinays traveling, are saying.
There is "something" extremely special about our whole meeting that seems very...destined to be. And then, how it all bloomed and keeps getting stronger. When i wasn't even looking for, or wanting, another GF, especially one who is considerably younger than me.
To be honest, i had seriously prayed for this to happen - and it's happening - so, it's really spooky in a very comfortable way. She is everything i had prayed for. The 'power of attraction' is amazing
I, at first, even rejected her FB friendship and it was i who later re-contacted her and asked her to by my FB friend.
Since i wrote how she giggles and hangs up, we've had a couple of really nice voice chats, one, one morning when she woke up (still in bed), and a few more, after i had seriously pointed out to her the importance of actually talking with one another live. She gets it, now. I told her to just to imagine i am a voice in a video, and she is recording a voice message liek she 's done many times. It seems to be working.
She is VERY shy, though.
And she told me, months ago, that she has major shyness issues speaking to ANY foreigner (i thought it was just me but i made a mistake) because she's not very sure of her English grammar. But her accent is really nice. She doesn't badly mispronounce any words.
And now, i am learning Tagalog just to show her how bad someone can sound.
I had to really, really compliment her heavily and make her feel comfortable with voice chatting
She just has to get her little boy in bed earlier so she's not too tired when we CAN voice chat.
Her whole family seems to think that any Pinay involved with a foreigner is an effing "BLEEP" - in it for the money. So she was not lokign to meet a foreigner for a relationship. We wer just talking about music, at first.
We had no idea this would bloom into a long-distance "relationship" LOL and it really bugs me to be in this freeking situation because any time i heard of this sort of thing happening to others, i would roll my eyes in their sockets and think, "HOW STUPID!!"
But you know?...to many people, "cancer" is just a word - until it happens to them.
In my case, a long-distance-relationship is a compound word, like that, and now i see it's happening to me.
I wish i would have known how to record our first conversation just to capture that and keep forever. I was really genuine, sweet and innocent.
I just, kind of, want her, here, on my turf for a few months so i can, sort of, "test" her sincerity and motives. I will put her into some very tempting situations to watch what she does.
Most guys i know would give up one of their nuts to be with this girl. She is ALL THAT, at least, in my eyes and in all the eyes of her many male admirers who like and love her FB photos and comments - but none of them know about her kids and her judgemental family.
I do sincerely thank you for expressing your views.
Edit by Steve: Removed excessive space at the bottom. Post itself is ok.
PS: I even fixed the red "me" for you.
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