That clearly runs contrary to your explanation
Harry schooled me back in the day when I was first setting up our solar system. Harry if your out there I can't thank you enough.
So I will pass on the understanding he gave me.
The term "neutral" as it is used here in the RP is contrary to what other countries use. If you meter out a neutral line here you will get voltage on it.
So its just terminology that you need to adjust to. Kinda like you cannot find "Velcro" any where. But there is lots of "Magic Tape".
If you walk your lines back to the power pole you will find a big oil transformer. that transformer usually has 3 or 4 taps on it. Usually two of those taps feed your house extension. One of the other taps, usually not connected to anything, will be the center of the transformer winding between the taps that feed your house. That center tap is 0 volts in respect to the Leg 1 and Leg 2 feeds to your house.
The main problem is that users are not given access to a center tap feed so you can't just go between L1 or L2 to a ground bond neutral. Direct short to ground. You will let the magic blue smoke out of all of the appliances, and start Divisoria on fire ..... again.
So what most people have is two wires 180 out of phase. Between them you measure 240 vdc. Keeping that in mind, every time you goof with electricity here you need to remember that even with the switch off one line is still hot. Unless you installed Double pole single throw switches.
What we do is use a large auto transformer. That lets me create a neutral, (still cant bond it to ground). Using that neutral We can now power 120 devices off of either Neu -> L1 or Neu -> L2.
Hope that helps.