In another recent thread, BudM commented thus:
I am glad my kid is not going to school in the US and that is one of the main reasons I never got married and had a kid in the US. I did want to be responsible for bringing a kid in to the kind of crap that goes on now.
Some time ago, Coleman started a thread under this topic about education in the Phils. It drew about 10 comments, most not painting a rosy picture of education in the Phils.
On another forum, someone made a comment about kids today feeling entitled and being generally worthless. Another poster came back with:
Lately, seeing those teens from the Parkland, FL school where the shootings occurred, has given me some hope. They speak so well and eloquently, not saying 'like' or 'ahhh' every other word. Even under all the stress they suffered, and at public speaking events, they seem to be holding it together. Whether you agree with their message or not, you have to admit these kids are no worthless sluggards. I hope the future is with kids like that.
The comment caught my attention because it reflects exactly what I had been thinking watching the same reports out of Parkland. Perhaps just an anomaly and the rest of the kids in the US will never amount to anything.
I have lived in Canada, the US and the Phils. My experience with education in the Phils is very limited. The son of my ex went to school in Tuguegarao and came with us when we moved to Quezon City, where he started high school. He struggled with that. His experience there confirmed what I already suspected. He knew almost nothing. I asked my girl how he could have passed every year. She explained that making a cash donation to the school would ensure a pass to the next grade.
One reason I have had for not returning to live in the PI since our son was born was concern for his education and his future. Not only am I concerned about the overall quality of education, I am even more concerned about opportunity and the end of the process. But this is where I really have little knowledge. Just some guesswork.
It appears to me that lots and lots of kids in the PI attain university degrees. But I also see a lot of those grads struggling to find employment, much less employment at what I would call "US-style" wages of say $5,000 a month or so (which is not exactly big bucks in the US today). Yes, I see some who work in Makati offices earning very handsome amounts, but, as near as I can figure, those are people who have "connections" or are part of the PI elite. Maybe I am wrong, but it does not appear that an ordinary Filipino (or FilAm) kid can go to school, earn top marks, and have any assurance of getting a job paying US-style wages. They can work, if at all, for about P20,000 a month (if that), or seek to go abroad.
As for going abroad, perhaps some here can tell me, what are the chances of a FilAm kid, raised and educated in the Phils, of going abroad to the US or other western country, having their credentials recognized, and gaining employment at the same level they would have had they been born and raised in that western country?
So it is that perception of things that has prevented me from seriously considering a move back to the PI until our son completes high school. But, as I say, it's a
perception and I could be dead wrong. Our kid appears to be fairly bright and I want him to have the best opportunities possible. If we lived in the PI, I suppose I have sufficient resources that he could live out his days there and not have to work, but that's hardly what I want for him - to live off daddy for life.
I'll also observe that the schooling my son has received here in Canada thus far is decidedly advanced from what I received here long years ago. His math skills (in grade 8 at age 13) are now where mine were in grade 11. His knowledge of geography is broad. Recently the school superintended showed up at his school with flash cards of world flags. Our son was able to immediately identify 162 out of 195 country flags. I was never able to do that. He knows world politics. We recently returned from a road trip to Los Angeles. We covered over 3,000 miles. He knew something of every place we went. In WA, we went to a restaurant that claimed to serve the best steaks in WA, or the world, or whatever. I made the comment to our son that the steaks served were so good that President Trump was likely a regular customer. He replied that that was unlikely, because WA is a democratic state, just like Oregon and California we would be visiting next. He could tell me how Americans voted in most states. I must confess to not being able to come close to matching that knowledge. And my point here is not that our kid is some superstar; he is not. Just an ordinary kid. But he is receiving a good education, which includes teachings about the world. Is the calibre of education in the Phils on a par today?
Obviously some, like BudM, have given this vexing matter serious consideration. I would welcome comments from those who are raising and educating kids in the Phils as to what they foresee for those kids. If there are some who have raised kids there to adulthood, how have those kids fared?