I'm going to keep this very generalized for on here. If you want more specifics, send me a PM.
LBC.
I sent a lot of my stuff via LBC. Every year I get boxes of stuff sent here from the USA as I live out in the boondocks, so to say. Hard to get stuff that is easy to get in the USA where I live.
When I sent the stuff, or had/have stuff sent me, the items are listed as VERY general items. Instead of "Kitchenaid stand mixer" it'll be "Kitchen tool"
I've never had a single box opened. Talking a lot of boxes, and never a single one opened by anyone from when sent from it's place in the USA to when it was delivered to my home here.
Now, for you there might be another option. This has been covered here somewhere else on the site inside that last decade so it's probably still on the site, I just don't know where. But, if you and your wife are moving back, she can use a one time deal where she can actually have a whole shipping container sent back and no need to pay any import fees or that other junk. Only the cost you'll need to play for the transportation of said shipping container to your address in the Philippines. An American who retired and moved to a place close to where I live had that done when he moved over. Cheap? No, not really. But I believe, if I remember correctly, it was not even opened or checked. Moved all of their furniture, their truck, and appliances with other odds and ends in it. A 40' long shipping container.
The last option requires you to have a Pinay wife who is "returning home" to the Philippines. If you don't have that, forget about it.